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« on: December 23, 2014, 14:55:12 pm »

To Snipe, there are two meanings listed:
1.  to shoot at someone from a hiding place, especially accurately and at long range. "the soldiers in the trench sniped at us"
2.  to make a sly or petty verbal attack.


None of you are capable of being a professional one of the first.
The continued use and quoting of the second meaning is tiresome and once again is leading to many threads being ruined by an unbelievable level of immaturity shown by a number of posters.  This in turn is ruining a site that used to be an enjoyable place to visit and converse about themes including NTFC, sport, general subjects etc....   

All who continue to ruin it are warned to expect unannounced remedial action to be taken, before this site is reduced to an arena  solely occupied by middle aged and more aged people who would be more at home in a kindergarten.
If you are on the receiving end, ignore and continue to post about the relevant/topic.  The spark only feeds on the 'fuel' provided by the response.
The Moderators do not require individuals to highlight publicly those who initiate, there is a perfectly good system of anonymous reporting and we are more than capable of doing so ourselves, as those who have been 'educated' can testify.

This site/board is frequented and read by many 'hundreds', but only a fraction actually post because the majority do not want to be drawn into the infantile 'banter' that has spread across the majority of threads.  This has to change and all have to be encouraged to contribute, not just read.
Banter, argument and sensible disagreement/debate is accepted (and encouraged), name calling and a continual statement of the same/obvious in an infantile/immature manner is not.

If you want to remain on this site adjust your behaviour, if not, carry on. 
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« Reply #1 on: December 23, 2014, 15:14:32 pm »

3  to criticize adversely a person or persons from a position of security

ie, say what you like about owners, chairmen, managers, players but...not other posters who are doing this from the security of their anonymity. This means that someone can post a load of rubbish, many times if they want, however accusatory, but the people telling them it's rubbish will be removed?

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« Reply #2 on: December 23, 2014, 16:31:33 pm »

3  to criticize adversely a person or persons from a position of security

ie, say what you like about owners, chairmen, managers, players but...not other posters who are doing this from the security of their anonymity. This means that someone can post a load of rubbish, many times if they want, however accusatory, but the people telling them it's rubbish will be removed?



And who the f@ck are people like you to say it's a load of rubbish? Are you the mouthpiece of said owners chairmen, managers and players? No, you're not...so stop bloody acting as if you are!
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« Reply #3 on: December 23, 2014, 16:38:59 pm »

Oooh la la! People like you, eh? Who am I to give my opinion? Good question.
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« Reply #4 on: December 23, 2014, 16:58:02 pm »

Merry Christmas to one and all and may the Cobblers prosper into and beyond the New Year!
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« Reply #5 on: December 23, 2014, 17:48:08 pm »

You'd better watch out
You'd better not cry
You'd better be good
I'm telling you why
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« Reply #6 on: December 23, 2014, 20:02:13 pm »

3  to criticize adversely a person or persons from a position of security

ie, say what you like about owners, chairmen, managers, players but...not other posters who are doing this from the security of their anonymity. This means that someone can post a load of rubbish, many times if they want, however accusatory, but the people telling them it's rubbish will be removed?


That is the nature of any forum, message board, social media. There are many views shared, positive and negative. Looking at the current state of our club you wouldn't expect to read a wave of positivity but it fair to say that some people struggle with this. Some defend certain players, some the manager, some the chairman and some anything NTFC. We've probably all had that conversation with someone when you try to defend the Cobblers to your Prem supporting mates. I think some on here just continue to do that, rather than realise that we are actually amongst people with a common interest! It can be good therapy sometimes to admit we are cr*p!

Social media wouldn't exist if everyone only wrote what you'd say to someone's face! Of course it is fine to disagree, it'd be a boring world otherwise. It is the goading little one liners without adding anything to the debate, or an opinion which become tiresome.


Anyway, Happy Xmas fellow posters, wishing you and your families a healthy new year. Let's hope things are rosier on and off the field in 2015.



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« Reply #7 on: December 23, 2014, 20:36:07 pm »

That is the nature of any forum, message board, social media. There are many views shared, positive and negative. Looking at the current state of our club you wouldn't expect to read a wave of positivity but it fair to say that some people struggle with this. Some defend certain players, some the manager, some the chairman and some anything NTFC. We've probably all had that conversation with someone when you try to defend the Cobblers to your Prem supporting mates. I think some on here just continue to do that, rather than realise that we are actually amongst people with a common interest! It can be good therapy sometimes to admit we are cr*p!

Social media wouldn't exist if everyone only wrote what you'd say to someone's face! Of course it is fine to disagree, it'd be a boring world otherwise. It is the goading little one liners without adding anything to the debate, or an opinion which become tiresome.


Anyway, Happy Xmas fellow posters, wishing you and your families a healthy new year. Let's hope things are rosier on and off the field in 2015.





Great post which I think shows the dynamic nature of these exchanges - never totally policed and nor should it be.
 Deepcut's lead is sensible (and I've certainly been guilty of some of the points raised) but with respect some of your fellow mods should also follow the same guidelines.
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« Reply #8 on: December 23, 2014, 21:08:00 pm »

I appreciate the sentiment, Deepcut, but some of the worst behaviour is exhibited on occasion by 'Administrators' which isn't a great lead.
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« Reply #9 on: December 23, 2014, 22:20:50 pm »

And who the f@ck are people like you to say it's a load of rubbish? Are you the mouthpiece of said owners chairmen, managers and players? No, you're not...so stop bloody acting as if you are!

Flippin' heck GPC you are sticking your head above the parapet.

Whether we like it or not we should abide by the Mods rules. As long as the same rules are applied with some degree of equality then that's fine by me. However some "one liners" for example from Garibaldi, Gibbo and the Marquis are very funny so I hope the Mods will allow some discretion to be played out.
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« Reply #10 on: December 24, 2014, 08:46:05 am »

The Moderators will protect this board and will use all means available to ensure that it is protected.

Good, might stick around then.
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« Reply #11 on: December 26, 2014, 19:04:19 pm »

To Snipe, there are two meanings listed:
1.  to shoot at someone from a hiding place, especially accurately and at long range. "the soldiers in the trench sniped at us"
2.  to make a sly or petty verbal attack.


None of you are capable of being a professional one of the first.
The continued use and quoting of the second meaning is tiresome and once again is leading to many threads being ruined by an unbelievable level of immaturity shown by a number of posters.  This in turn is ruining a site that used to be an enjoyable place to visit and converse about themes including NTFC, sport, general subjects etc....  

All who continue to ruin it are warned to expect unannounced remedial action to be taken, before this site is reduced to an arena  solely occupied by middle aged and more aged people who would be more at home in a kindergarten.
If you are on the receiving end, ignore and continue to post about the relevant/topic.  The spark only feeds on the 'fuel' provided by the response.
The Moderators do not require individuals to highlight publicly those who initiate, there is a perfectly good system of anonymous reporting and we are more than capable of doing so ourselves, as those who have been 'educated' can testify.

This site/board is frequented and read by many 'hundreds', but only a fraction actually post because the majority do not want to be drawn into the infantile 'banter' that has spread across the majority of threads.  This has to change and all have to be encouraged to contribute, not just read.
Banter, argument and sensible disagreement/debate is accepted (and encouraged), name calling and a continual statement of the same/obvious in an infantile/immature manner is not.

If you want to remain on this site adjust your behaviour, if not, carry on. 
If you deserve to be removed either permanently or for a period, you will be, irrespective of your own perceived worth/contribution.
Those currently on final warnings are extant.

The Moderators will protect this board and will use all means available to ensure that it is protected.
The small print below still applies.


I wondered how long it would take before the Mods had had enough too!! I've had enough and given up posting a while back as it's just the same pathetic individuals scoring points and winding each other up into a frenzy of abuse. Children of the Keyboards I guess....Warriors they are NOT!! It truly is groundhog day on this forum. To be honest I'd lock/delete the redevelopment thread including all the history. I bet their would be enough toys thrown out of prams to supply every kid in Great Ormond St Hospital  Grin Seriously though it's sooo depressing. Kill the thread....It may actually lift some of the gloom. The thread is a dark monster and has become the focal point for everything/one bad about the forum.

Lets cleanse it now and start a fresh. I'm sure the silent majority hold a similar view to mine.

Cheers.....John
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« Reply #12 on: December 27, 2014, 03:06:53 am »

I've become very bored of this place in recent times I have to admit, I've only really been on here to organise the POTS this season. As others have said, too little genuine discussion and too much points-scoring.
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« Reply #13 on: December 27, 2014, 09:14:44 am »

I've become very bored of this place in recent times I have to admit, I've only really been on here to organise the POTS this season. As others have said, too little genuine discussion and too much points-scoring.
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« Reply #14 on: December 27, 2014, 16:15:51 pm »

I've become very bored of this place in recent times I have to admit, I've only really been on here to organise the POTS this season. As others have said, too little genuine discussion and too much points-scoring.

We are trying really hard at the moment, having realised the impact the sniping and squabbling has on contributors. Even I've have had to curb my tendency to provoke people a bit and trawl for a bit of fun  Grin

As we have said. Don't be surprised if some members don't just disappear and certainly some posts are already being deleted without explanation. Control has been grabbed back and we are already starting to see the benefit of that.
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« Reply #15 on: December 27, 2014, 17:47:31 pm »

If you're deleting posts, how would we know? I mean I don't revisit posts so if I posted something and then you deleted it, I'd never know so how am I supposed to learn from the error of my ways?

If you're going to delete a post for an offence then can't you pm the poster and tell them what you've done and he reason why? Education, education, education.
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« Reply #16 on: December 27, 2014, 18:18:36 pm »

"Control has been grabbed back and we are already starting to see the benefit of that!" screamed Comrade Kim Jong-Un.

How many of your brave comrades perished during the purification process, teri? Will the stand soon be built now purity has returned?

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« Reply #17 on: December 27, 2014, 19:00:27 pm »

If you're deleting posts, how would we know? I mean I don't revisit posts so if I posted something and then you deleted it, I'd never know so how am I supposed to learn from the error of my ways?

If you're going to delete a post for an offence then can't you pm the poster and tell them what you've done and he reason why? Education, education, education.

We have not deleted any posts, the ones that he has mentioned have been deleted by the original posters without reason or notification to ourselves.  They probably have had second thoughts of their own.
We do not delete or amend any posts without inviting the individual to do so themselves first, unless it is of a nature that they require immediate deletion/amendment, whereupon we contact the originator to explain the reason.
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« Reply #18 on: December 27, 2014, 19:48:07 pm »

I realise you may be talking the truth from your point of view, but I would draw your attention to the thread DC or CW that is shorter now than it was earlier.
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« Reply #19 on: December 27, 2014, 20:11:42 pm »

We do not delete or amend any posts without inviting the individual to do so themselves first, unless it is of a nature that they require immediate deletion/amendment, whereupon we contact the originator to explain the reason.


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